Updated "the list"

Willingness quick-key:
? Don't understand this item.
* I will do with current sex partner only.
NO I WILL NOT DO that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 Don't want to do, but will.
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible.


Abrasion : 1
Age play : 1
Anal sex : 2
Anal plugs (small) : *
Anal plugs (large) :*
Anal plug (public, under clothes): *
Animal roles : 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) :?
Aromas : 5
Asphyxiation :NO
Auctioned for charity : NO..well only if it was for a few hours then 2
Ball stretching :N/A
Bathroom use control :5
Bestiality :NO
Beating (soft) : 1
Beating (hard) : no/*
Blindfolds : 5
Being serviced (sexual) : 5
Being bitten : *...
Breast/chest bondage : 4
Breath control : 0
Branding : 0
Boot worship : 2
Bondage (light) :5
Bondage (heavy) :2
Bondage (multi-day) : 2/*
Bondage (public, under clothing) : 3
Breast whipping : 0/*
Brown showers (scat) : NO
Cages (locked inside of) : 3
Caning : 0/1/*
Castration fantasy : 0/3/4/****/maybe
Catheterization : 1
Cattle prod (electrical toy) : NO
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) :1
Chains :5
Chamber-pot use :NO
Chastity belts :5!!!!
Chauffeuring :5 :)
Choking :0/*
Chores (domestic service) :4
Clothespins :0/1/*
Cock rings/straps :N/A
Cock worship :5
Collars (worn in private) :5
Collars (worn in public) :3*
Competitions (with other subs) :5!!
Corsets (wearing casually) :5
Corsets (trained waist reduction):5
Cross-dressing :0
Cuffs (leather) :5
Cuffs (metal) :5
Cutting :NO
Diapers (wearing) :no
Diapers (wetting) :no
Diapers (soiling) :no
Dilation :no
Dildoes :5
Double penetration :5
Electricity :no
Enemas (for cleansing) :0/*
Enemas (retention/punishment) :0/*
Enforced chastity : 5!
Erotic dance (for audience) : 1
Examinations (physical) :5
Exercise (forced/required) :2
Exhibitionism (friends) :no
Exhibitionism (strangers) :2
Eye contact restrictions :1*
Face slapping :0/*
Fantasy abandonment : no
Fantasy rape :no
Fantasy gang-rape :no
Fear (being scared) : 0/*
Fisting (anal) : 0
Fisting (vaginal) :0
Flame play : NO
Following orders :5
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) :5
Foot worship :1/*
Forced bedwetting :3
Forced dressing :3
Forced eating :1*
Forced homosexuality :0
Forced heterosexuality : 0
Forced masturbation :5
Forced nudity (private) :5
Forced nudity (around others) :NO
Forced servitude :5
Forced smoking :NO
Full head hoods :0/*
Gags (cloth) : 3
Gags (inflatible) :3
Gags (phallic) :4
Gags (rubber) :4
Gags (tape) :2
Gas masks :0
Gates of Hell (male) :N/A
Genital sex :5
Given away to another Dom (temp) :NO
Given away to another Dom (perm) :NO
Golden showers :0
Gun play :NO
Hairbrush spankings :2
Hair pulling :0
Hand jobs (giving) :5
Hand jobs (receiving) :N/A
Harems (serving w/other subs) : /NO
Harnessing (leather) :
Harnessing (rope) :
Having food chosen for you :3
Having clothing chosen for you :5
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) :5
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) :5
High heel wearing :5
High heel worship :0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) :?
Hoods :1
Hot oils (on genitals) :1
Hot waxing :*
Housework (doing) :4
Human puppy dog :0
Humiliation (private) :5
Humiliation (public) :4
Hypnotism :5
Ice cubes :4
Immobilization :3
Infantilism :?
Initiation rites :?
Injections :0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:5
Interrogations :0?
Kidnapping :0?/NO
Kneeling :3/**Has trouble kneeling for long periods**
Knife play :no
Leather clothing :5
Leather restraints :5
Lectures for misbehavior :0
Licking (non-sexual) :* wtf
Lingerie (wearing) :5
Manacles & irons :?
Manicures (giving) :5!
Massage (giving) :5
Massage (receiving) :5
Medical scenes :0
Modeling for erotic photos :5
Mouth bits :?
Mummification :?
Name change (for scene) :5
Name change (legal, permanant) :no
Nipple clamps :0/no
Nipple rings (piercings) :0/no
Nipple play/"torture" :0/no
Nipple weights :0/no
Oral/anal play (rimming) :1
Over-the-knee spanking :1
Orgasm denial :5!
Orgasm control :5
Outdoor scenes :0
Outdoor sex :5 :D
Pain (mild) :0
Pain (medium) :0
Pain (severe) :0
Persona training (in scene) :4
Personality modification (RL) :0/*
Phone sex (serving Dom) :1
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):1
Phone sex (commercial provider) :1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):4
Piercing (permanent) :4
Plastic surgery :5
Prison scenes :0
Prostitution (public pretense) :no
Prostitution (actual) :no
Pony slave :no
Public exposure :no
Punishment Scene :no
Pussy/cock whipping :5
Pussy worship :n/a
Riding crops :4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.):0
Rituals :4
Religious scenes :0
Restrictive rules on behavior :5
Rubber/latex clothing :2
Rope body harness :2
Saran wrapping :2
Scarification :no....
Scratching - getting :0
Scratching - giving :0
Sensory deprivation :5
Serving :5
Serving as art :5
Serving as ashtray :NO
Serving as furniture :3
Serving as a maid :5
Serving as toilet (urine) :no?/*
Serving as toilet (feces) :NO
Serving as waitress/waiter :5
Serving orally (sexual) :5
Serving other doms (supervised) :0
Serving other doms (unsupervised):0
Sexual deprivation (short term) :5
Sexual deprivation (long term) :5
Shaving (body hair) :5? I mean i like to shave?
Shaving (genital hair) :5
Shaving (head hair) :0 No
Skinny-dipping :5
Sleep deprivation :3
Sleepsacks :?
Slutty clothing (private) :5
Slutty clothing (public) :5
Spandex clothing :2
Spanking :1
Speech restrictions (when, what) :1
Speculums (anal) :?
Speculums (vaginal) :?
Spitting :?
Spreader bars :5
Standing in corner :1
Stocks :1
Straight jackets :1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) :5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) :5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) :2
Strapping (full body beating) :0
Suspension (upright) :0
Suspension (inverted) :4
Suspension (horizontal) :2
Supplying new partners for Dom : 0/NO
Swallowing feces : NO
Swallowing semen :5
Swallowing urine :No
Swapping (with one other couple) :no
Swinging (multiple couples) :3?
Tampon training (in ass) :1
Tattooing :0
Teasing :5
TENS Unit (electrical toy) :?
Thumbcuffs (metal) :?
Tickling :2
Triple penetration :5
Urethral sounds (metal rods) :?
Uniforms :2?
Including others :no
Vaginal dildo :5
Verbal humiliation :5
Vibrator on genitals :5
Violet Wand (electricial toy) :5
Voyeurism (watching others) :3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) :2
Video (watching others) : 3
Video (recordings of you) :2
Water torture :0?
Waxing (hair removal) :2
Wearing symbolic jewelery :5
Weight gain (forced) :NO
Weight loss (forced) :4
Whipping :1
Wooden paddles :1
Wrestling :0